"I became all things to all men. . . ."
Have you ever wondered how Paul accomplished the task of becoming all things to all people? Was he a master of many forms, a human chameleon, or an incredible con artist? Like the story of Frank Abagnale, Jr. which became the movie “Catch me if you can??” He was able to pass himself off, quite convincingly, as a physician, an airline pilot, what have you, at least for a while. Or, do you think Paul was simply insecure in his own self-hood or possessed of MPD, a multiple personality disorder?
I don't think Paul was a con artist, nor was he mentally ill. Paul was intimate with God and, ideally, one who is intimate with the Creator of all life shares the Creator's intimacy with all of created reality. Paul had the ability to become all things to all people, gained the freedom to submit himself as a "slave to all" because he had entered the freedom of intimacy as a "partaker of Divine nature."
Our society seeks intimacy, but we go about achieving it in all the wrong ways. It cannot be forced and it cannot come as the result of technology. Intimacy, defined by some psychologists as "the strength which allows one to share deeply with others," is the gift of God. God modeled true intimacy for us in the Incarnation of Jesus Christ; when he, literally, "got under our skin." We will begin to achieve true intimacy when we open ourselves to the reality of our ability to share in Divine nature. The great writers of the Christian East knew this and wrote about the internal struggle - what some contemporary scholars might refer to as "cognitive dissonance" - going on inside us. They understood that before one can achieve intimacy with others it must be achieved with the self. The only way intimacy with the self can be achieved is by entering into intimacy with the Creator of the self.
Here is what Gregory of Nyssa had to say: “Man, who among beings counts for nothing, who is dust, grass, vanity, who was adopted to be a son of the God of the universe, becomes the friend of this Being of such excellence and grandeur; this is a mystery that we can neither see nor understand nor comprehend. What thanks should man give for so great a favor? What word, what thought, what lifting up of mind in order to exalt the superabundance of this grace? Man surpasses his own very nature. From a mortal being he becomes immortal; from a perishable being he becomes imperishable. From ephemeral he becomes eternal. In a word, from man he becomes god. In fact, rendered worthy to become a son of God, he will have in himself the dignity of the Father, enriched by all the inheritance of the goods of the Father. O munificence of the Lord, so bountiful. . . .How great are the gifts of such ineffable treasures!”
Elsewhere Gregory tells us how we gain this gift. "For one who is a man becomes a son of God by being joined to Christ by spiritual generation; -- a man puts off himself and puts on the divine nature. A man becomes a son of God, receiving what he has not and laying aside what he is."
What Gregory is talking about here is the process of entheosis or divinisation. This is why Christ came among us. This is the kingdom of God come near that he preached; as he said to Peter, "for that is why I came out." God initiated the concept of intimacy in the Garden of Eden when he called after Adam and Eve, "Where are you?" Now, through his Incarnate Son, he gives us the gift and to a greater degree than anyone ever thought possible.
To be "in God" (entheosis) or "divinised" doesn't change our nature. Rather it builds upon it, restoring our human nature to what it was supposed to be like. Athanasius of Mount Sinai wrote, "Theosis (Divinization) is the elevation to what is better, but not the reduction of our human nature to something less, nor is it an essential change of our human nature. A divine plan, it is the willing condescension of tremendous dimension by God, which He did for the salvation of others. That which is of God is that which has been lifted up to a greater glory, without its own nature being changed."
Think about the implications of this divinization. You and I, creations of the hand of the God upon whom "no one can look and live" are now invited to share his life and to call him 'abba,' daddy! We are given the strength to share deeply with God. How do we achieve this sharing, how do we enter into intimacy with the Divine?
We achieve intimacy by using the means God has given us. First, we must open ourselves to God and stop running away when he comes looking for us. We do that by prayer. Jesus goes out "very early in the morning" and seeks solitude so that he can be solus cum solo - alone with the alone. The second person of the Divine Trinity needed to spend time with the Father. Do you think we can expect to grow or develop in spiritual life and do less? I hope not; we all realize that the key to intimacy is sharing and communication, it's really no different for spiritual intimacy.
We also have to realize that prayer is not just "talking to God," but involves our meditative listening as well. If you want a good little basic book on prayer, I think Anthony Bloom's Beginning to Pray is excellent.
The second means God gives us to achieve intimacy are the sacraments. Through baptism we are adopted into God's family and made part of the covenanted community. Our participation in the Eucharist - God's good gift to us - is truly a 'communion,' a coming into union with God. As Augustine tells us, we are made one with what we see before us on the table. Simple, every day things like bread and wine become living reminders of our participation in the Divine.
The third means God gives us to achieve intimacy, and this one is really part and parcel of the first two, is the Holy Scriptures. The way we can listen for God is by being open to hearing what his Word has to say. While the Bible is the "norm for which there is no higher norm," I think we need to realize that God can speak through a variety of means. Thus, our study should begin with the Scripture and branch out into theology, spiritual writers, and into all the arts and sciences. The God who made all of created reality can speak to us through it, if we have open minds and are listening with the "ears of the heart."
As we begin to grow in this Divine intimacy we will learn to exercise it in freedom. The manner in which we relate to our loved ones, to the community of faith, and to the community at large is going to be markedly different. Where before we had to "protect ourselves," we no longer have to do so, because, as Isaiah so beautifully put it, "those who wait upon the Lord renew their strength," mounting up "on eagles' wings." We can become "all things to all people" because we know who we are in relationship to the God who made all people. The perfect love of God, then, casts out our fears and allows us to see ourselves, and everyone around us, in a new way. I am free to be who I am because I finally know it!
This partaking in Divine nature is not some kind of stunt. Jesus distanced himself from those who simply wanted to see him as a "worker of wonders." He wanted to preach the possibility of Divine intimacy, the nearness of the Kingdom within the heart and life of every human being made anew in the image and likeness of God. Paul caught the same vision, thus his words, "Woe is me if I preach not the gospel!" The freedom of intimacy is compelling.
When Jesus left the village and went off to pray, he did so because the wonders were becoming more important than the Word. The message of change and growth was being lost, so he left and went elsewhere. Over the centuries, even now, we lose the message. We want the effects - the healings, the ecstasies, and the like - but we don't want to change. God should just do this for us.
That's not what it's about. Those who enter into Divine intimacy have to come away different than they were. The greatest wonder is that God empowers us, them, to make a difference. It's unfortunate that so many Christians are still getting caught up in the empty promise of the "wonder working" and missing the greatest gift - intimacy, union with the Divine. The freedom of intimacy comes when we partake of Divine nature, when we allow ourselves to be recipients and practitioners of measureless love.